The Knowledge of Encounter

The Knowledge of Encounter

  One day a seemingly homeless woman asked if I could help with some necessities. She was a short lady with a cracked face from age or heavy smoking, tousled hair that stood high on her head, and deep set eyes showing the weary side of her life. She could’ve been...
Now We Got Bad Blood

Now We Got Bad Blood

Apple’s announcement that it would offer a free three-month trial of its new music streaming service was met with great celebration in late June. The company’s simultaneous announcement that they wouldn’t pay artists during the trial period was met with considerably...
What Should I Do with My Life?

What Should I Do with My Life?

“What are you going to do with your life?” can be a terrifying question. One summer, while giving retreats on Ignatian spirituality, the most popular talk we gave was on Ignatius’s “Rules for Discernment.”1 It indicated that most of us are hungry for guidance. I was...
Imaginary Friend Jesus

Imaginary Friend Jesus

  I had been talking around it for weeks.  My spiritual director, on the other hand, was ready to get to the point. “It sounds like you just really want her,” he said. His voice lingered on the words really and want to make it clear that he was...
Who Killed Amy Winehouse?

Who Killed Amy Winehouse?

  There are some music albums that become the soundtracks for particular moments in our lives. You know the kind I mean: the ones where simply hearing one of its songs – even years later – transports you instantaneously to a particular moment in the past. Amy...
TJP Reads: The New Jim Crow

TJP Reads: The New Jim Crow

During my years in Chicago, I was a volunteer at the Cook County Juvenile Temporary Detention Center.  It is a place where people, mostly young African-American males under the age of 18, are awaiting trial. My goal was to offer aid to these individuals, as well as to...
TJP Reads: American Psycho and Anna Karenina

TJP Reads: American Psycho and Anna Karenina

I… Just… Want… To… Be… Loved… I’ve spent this summer reading two emotionally-draining novels: American Psycho and Anna Karenina. The first is a disturbing excoriation of 1980s yuppie values that is a paragon of postmodern stream of consciousness storytelling and...