HIV, Advent, and Inclusion

HIV, Advent, and Inclusion

I rarely have to think about what it must be like to be HIV+. Like many others, I grew up in a community where I knew no one who was HIV+ or had died from AIDS. My exposure was the RENT soundtrack. And seeing the film, I couldn’t really understand what the reality of...
On Making Friends

On Making Friends

“So. Um. Would you wanna…hang out…sometime?” I take a drink of the brown lager in front of me, feigning interest at college football showing on the screen above the bar. It’s my attempt at playing it cool and calm even though my insides are frazzled. I’m trying...
One Word at a Time: NaNoWriMo and Advent?

One Word at a Time: NaNoWriMo and Advent?

A funny thing happens every November called NaNoWriMo—everyday people attempt to write a 50,000 word novel over the course of the month. And, strange as it might sound, the process has a lot of connections with the upcoming season of Advent. Since November is a busy...
How This is Home

How This is Home

“Your room is a lot smaller than it looked,” said my parents when they sat down on the chair I FaceTime them from every Sunday night. “Yeah? Well, check out this view.” After two and a half years of FaceTiming from South Dakota to Wisconsin, my parents came to visit....
You Can’t Say That at Dinner!

You Can’t Say That at Dinner!

In the 7th grade, my mom made me attend an etiquette dinner. The dinner was for professional students at Saint Louis University where Mom taught, but she took the opportunity to stick me in an ill-fitting sport coat and teach me some manners. (Depending on who you...